Conflict Resolution Tactics Inspired By Cats & Dolphins

ening PERSPECTIVES on conflict resolution haveother as gifts instead of advising, changing and trying
been inspired in me by sacred animals, Jessie Justinto alter each other. That altering technique often used
Joy , the feline teacher and dolphins. Does peace everin conversation, is a technique of the mind, to get
occur in the outer or is the idea of "peace" the ego'severyone to replicate the mind in one being. A more
way of saying, my way? Perhaps peace has beensure & pleasurable route to security and happiness is
here now eternally and is simply waiting for us toto choose to turn whatever you find inside your heart
dissolve back into her-his arms in all circumstances."back into peace within yourself. Offer up a need for
I lived in an apartment by the ocean for many yearsanyone to be any way and suddenly, all there is to
and often came home to a party of cats. Jessie theexperience is LOVE. All beings are gifts. The beings
feline was very social and while I was away, catsthat appear to cause you distress are great blessings
would come in the cat door and hold gatherings withfor they give you the opportunity to find deeper peace
each other. I enjoyed the way the cats breathed inwithin, based only on PEACE itself. Turn your thoughts,
rhythm with the near by ocean. All immersed in uniqueyour physical experience and your entire energy filed
and personal life tasks, each dreaming up a uniqueback into peace. Soon you find your body is a friend to
perspective, individually encountering different levels ofyour spirit, a devoted servant available for great peace
evolution, the cats could sit comfortably together inand bliss. Next you find that your spirit is simply a
harmony.devotee to the ONE SOUL LOVE: ALL THAT IS!
Years later I was holding Unconditional AwakeningWhen in conflict with a loved one, a country, a religious
Seminars as a therapist. I put a vase of flowers in theorder, your ,mind, a neighbor, your body or a
middle of the circle. If we each took a photograph ofprofessional colleague take these steps.
the flowers from where we sat, using the best of1) Focus on gratitude in your heart
equipment, we would each have a different picture...all2) Choose to BE JOY!
correct pictures...all lovely pictures. Can humans sit in3) In place of a complaint, identify your request.
circle and celebrate each others' individual perspectives4) Identify what you essentially desire in one word
without needing any of them to be right or wrong?(example: resolution, joy, peace, love, abundance,
Humans may have trouble with simply witnessing eachhealth). Most likely, you and your opponent desire the
other in the awareness that there is room for each ofsame thing but assume that the thing has to come in
us and that each of us is here now to be unique. Thedifferent ways.
most harmonic sound I ever heard was many birds all5) Allow your essential desire to be more important
chirping at once. Many species of birds sang inthat the form in which you first thought it would need
dissonance but in the dissonance was a harmony. Into appear. The universe has a plethora of ways to
higher frequency awareness so it is with humans.create what it is you seek.
Each in our own learning process, engaged in our soul6) Assume your conflict mate has appeared to give
purpose we emit a note. All the notes together areyou an opportunity to be peace instead of impose
one beautiful chorus in the 13th realm.your mind's idea of peace and this blessing of grace
Each animal, human and nature being is a Divine sparkcan potentially liberate you.
of One LOVE! When I asked everyone at theNotice how the dolphins may play and cats' may
Unconditional Awakening Seminar to express gratitudechoose breathe together in all circumstances. As a
the room jumped up to a very high frequency anddove, Jonah, once told me, "It's easy." To create
everyone realized they loved each other by design!peace, be peace.
People practiced hearing and being aware of each